It's a GOAL!

Look. I wouldn't need to write a whole page about what goals are. Simply google it ok? But, in case you're too lazy to do that, let me help you;

"Goals are the object of a person's ambition or effort; aim or desired result"

-  Google, 2016 (yes, I just cited Google)

So here comes the million dollar question- when was the last time you can say you challenged yourself to set goals so as to improve the quality of your life? And I'm not talking about those ridiculous bucket lists that won't even survive a month. I'm talking about Specific, Measurable, ATTAINABLE, Result oriented and Time-framed goals. SMART goals.

I believe that as humans, it is quite easy for us to slip into a weightless dimension called The Comfort Zone. Sadly, this is our gradual but epic demise. Put an end to it today! Remember: nothing good comes easy. We have to work for it, we just have to. It's pleasing to see results after we have worked for it all. So yes, set goals today, you can miss a day or two, or even a whole week, but as long as we know we're working toward a new, improved  us. 

Here are some goals I've set for myself. I admit I can be a little lazy, but well, with God I'll see through it all.

Rudo's Goals

30 sit ups every morning and evening, increase number every week

Drink warm lemon water in the morning before eating anything

More green tea, less hot chocolate

Wash my lovely face twice a day

Pray, any time and every time

Jog (lol)

Opt for healthy snacks during study or class breaks

Visit the library at least 3 times a week

Attend Holy Mass at least twice a week, or pray the rosary if unable to attend

Write at least a paragraph of the current novel I'm working on every two days

Update myself on current issues related to Accounting on a daily basis

Inspire someone daily 

UPDATE THE BLOG WEEKLY

Till next week,

-The Libran XO- 

I'm only a crack...in this Castle of Glass

For those who know me, I'm a die-hard Linkin Park fan. I would usually not be a lover of rock music or metal, but this group comprising six talented individuals - Chester, Mike, Rob, Brad, Joe and Phoenix- really stole my heart. They re-fashioned the definition of art in my understanding! 

What captures me most is the rich lyricism in all of their songs thanks mainly to Mike Shinoda who builds up most of the songs for the band.

If you can just take time to listen to the words of one of their 2012 hit songs below -Castle of Glass- very touching. My personal favorite. It's basically inspired by the lives of US war veterans who sacrifice their lives  by endangering themselves in the Iraq situation... well something like that. It also shows the trauma that their families go through upon learning that their loved ones have succumbed..

This rock band is the only group I can say that I draw some of my inspiration to write..their lyrics are full of life, meaning and depth. That's what we all enjoy right?

I'm going to stop here and let you listen!

It's a cold world out here, a world so fragile. .. our Castle of Glass.

Make up... anyone?

Why do women wear makeup??? That would be a billion dollar question, as no two women can give you the same answer as to why they wear makeup.

When it comes to makeup everyone has an opinion about it; how much makeup you wear, whether you should wear makeup or not, or even what we consider or call makeup.

However as much as we all have our preference, our views and opinion on Makeup , we should also respect people’s choices and realize that makeup plays many different roles in every woman’s life. Every woman has her own special reason for wearing makeup, whether it’s to feel more confident, highlight her features, express herself, experiment with looks or just been creative or having fun.

 As a matter of fact, women wear makeup for a different reason every single time.  She could decide to look like she just rolled out of bed with a no makeup, makeup look, or go for a smoky eye in a night out with friends , or even decide to go for a sultry eye with a bold red lips for a date night with the boo.  All these are the different ways women choose to express and wear their personality using the creativity of makeup. 

Let's look at the different scenarios below…

• ·         To those who say “You look ugly without makeup”

It’s not that deep bro! it’s the same face with or without makeup

• ·         To those who say “Why do you even wear makeup? You don’t need it.”

Even Beyoncé wears makeup .. (lol)

• ·         To those that say “I only wear lip gloss and powder , I don’t wear makeup”

New flash boo! You do wear makeup!

• ·         To those who wear makeup to impress a man

Girl!!! Don’t bother because that man can’t even tell the difference between your natural lips and that expensive Mac’s Ruby Woo lipstick you saved for months just to buy.

• ·         To those who say “I like natural makeup like that of Kim Kardashian”

 Child!!! Close your eyes lets pray for you, “open thy eyes oh Lord! Fix it Jesus!” Amen!  .

• ·         To those girls that say “My man says I don’t need makeup to be beautiful”

Check his social media hun! He only likes pictures of girls with makeup (sips tea…haha)

• ·         And finally to the girl that loves makeup, and decides to wear her winged liner and lashes everyday…

Beat that face unapologetically and slay it Girl!!!

And remember! in the words of  Chimamanda Adichie;  “A good shade of lipstick can always put you in a slightly better mood on dark days.”

Share and Slay!!!

-Written by Black, African and Female blogger Myvonne Alasia, for more info on trending issues be sure to visit her blog by clicking  here.

Celebrating the African Female

"This business of womanhood is a heavy burden." -Tsitsi Dangarembga

Hello!

I'm back again. A few days ago, the very talented and mind blowing blogger Myvonne Alasia approached me and asked me to write an article about any African female I considered as a motivational character. I felt honored. Thanks Myvonne!

After careful thought, only one person came to mind, hailing all the way from my home country Zimbabwe, the inspirational filmmaker and writer Tsitsi Dangarembga.

It made me reminisce my high school days back at Monte Cassino Girls' High in Macheke, Zimbabwe. We as young girls got the opportunity to study one of Tsitsi's bestsellers, the novel called Nervous Conditions, for Ordinary Level Literature. I was really impressed with her style and how she'd effortlessly communicated the importance of female emancipation in a heavily patriarchal society. I could go on and on , but for more on Tsitsi, click Here .

Myvonne is a talented blogger. I'd suggest you visit her blog, it is honestly refreshing to read and gives a pedestal for the African Female to be celebrated!

That's it for now. Till we meet again! P.S - Thinking of dropping a surprise on you guys! Stay tuned.

(For more on Myvonne Alasia visit her blog: Black African and Female)

Sapphire

I am a Queen

I am rare

I blow my own horn

Maybe you should fix yours too

I can't hear you from the top

Success is my only noise

I am not meant for the weak

My blood irks at simpletons

I will look at you deeply

Body like Sapphire

Pleasing to the eyes

But none for the hands

Look at your own life

Tell me

How I fit in there?

Sorry honey

Feathers can never hold up gold

So hush your unfortunate lips

Stand still, you might see my splendor flourish

Listen, listen, my glory's prized speech

"I am a Queen

I am Strong

I Rule"

It's too big!

Now I know that all of us have that overpowering egotistic nature. It's not bad from time to time to remind yourself, and those around you, who you really are.

Sapphire is a piece which exactly describes this. Bent but never broken, only you can fuel your zest and potential to reach and exceed expectations. You are your own king! I hope you enjoy it.

NB: I am not that cocky, but push my buttons and you'll ignite a flame of arrogance.

-The Libran-

Rain

Rain on me, sweet love

Sink right into my soiled heart

Parched and torn

Cleanse my afflictions, precious one

And let me see your beauty clearly

Pour down, tender being

Wash the guilt, the hurt, the anger away

Your presence floods my sanity

It drowns my sense of calm

Like a tide you came in unexpectedly

Like a ricocheting wave you carry me lazily

I am content, I am happy

I feel the love trickling down

Into my bruised soul

Your smile is my desire

Your touch is intoxicates my senses

Drown my troubles

May they flow beyond imagination

I live for your magnificence

Rain, rain on me, my only

Droplets of your unending care trickle down on my heart

Your power is within what you have washed away

Your storms are perfect for my peaceful hells

Drippety Drop...

We all love or loathe the feel of rain on our sun kissed skins..

Rain tells of a broken heart revived, cleansed and soothed by a lovable being, basically he or she has come to the rescue! The sad and lonely soul isn't as gloomy anymore, and like the effect of rain on dry ground they have been refreshed.

Stay cool!

-The Libran-

Mother

My child, listen closely

It is said that at the end of the rainbow lies a pot o' gold

You hear, but never be deceived

I have cradled you in my arms

I have loved you

You are my pot of gold

My child, heed my call

My heart pains, it aches

My heart is plagued with a disease so fatal

It will kill my soul

My heart bleeds for you

My heart is crippled by my love for you

I will catch you when you stumble

Have I not taught you your first words?

Have I not held you by the hand,

And led you into the road of bliss

When I look into your eyes

I see my life

My child, it pains me to see you grow

To  know that one day,

 you will be weaned from my breast

I want only the best for you

Because I have a duty toward God

To nurture you into goodness

Yes this is my debt to the Father

For he has blessed me with you

May my smile bring you happiness

May my words bring you comfort

May my prayers help you

When you have fallen from grace

May you never  forget me, dearest child

May you never  forsake me when I grow old

I wish this and more

Because I am your Mother

And there's more!

We're getting there! Okay I had a hard time trying to choose which piece to put up after She.. but I can say the following piece will touch most .. actually all of you. 

I decided to  crown it as Mother, as it entails a mother's hopes and wishes for her beloved child. I believe that all mothers, living or resting, deserve honorable recognition for the sacrifices they have made for us to be where we are in life. Truly blessed we are.

I dedicate this one to my one and only mama, she has been all I need till now and I thank God for her.

-The Libran-

She

She will dance a sensual dance on the waves of your heart

Like a judge she will leave no stone unturned

Only the strong can withstand the poison of her beauty and charm

The rest waste away like the sands in the hourglass

She will refuse to be subdued

The curves of her confidence are fit to woo every ounce of your soul

Undisputed, she will claim you and have you for herself

She will not stop, she rules

She defies the odds of nature

She has upset every rule that has been commanded against her will

Her lips drip of nothing but the sweet nectar of  womanliness

She has nothing to lose, she has your heart in her soft palms

She embraces her feminine venom, she owns her show

The world is her stage

The moon is her light

If you are brave, then cross her path

But the weak, she blots out of existence

She will rule

She will conquer

Majestically, she will rise

The Queen of her own heart

And maybe yours

If you look closely

If you submit

If you dare

You will know

I am She

Oh poems, where art thou - there you are!

World... I'm Back!! Okay, as promised I am going to upload my very VERY very beloved and treasured pieces - poems in layman's language (LOL) - and I think it's time I gave you a taste of my weirdness!! I'm still starting out obviously, having created 20 pieces if I remember well - more to come!

So the first piece is crowned as She.. a very intimate, fiery and confident showcase of a very robust and independent woman who will not surrender at any cost to get what she wants (duh - it's ME of course haha). It's one of the first poems I wrote in 2014 after a long break at it, as I had started out in high school around 2009. You'll read the rest as I post!

Enjoy


-The Libran-

Suicide : Society's crime

Taking someone's life is evil of course, but taking one's own life? Beyond unimaginable. Cases of people committing suicide have the same old causes: depression, loneliness, rough upbringing, just sadness that one person feels and endures ALONE. Where is the rest of society when this person decides to end his or her own life? We are all consumed with our own battles we forget that  sometimes other people need that one extra lift from us. And when we ignore, we think everything is well until you find them lying lifeless on the cold floor. Too late.

It's time we intensified education toward suicide and its impact on society. We need to stand collectively and fight this silent evil, who knows, maybe your loved one is contemplating it right now. Just saying. 

It won't take much to educate and support one another. Offering moral support and words of affection clearly doesn't need a degree. It's stupid for society to pay a price for suicide yet it causes it. Step the game up, DO SOMETHING TODAY.

Check on your loved ones always. When going through rough patch, talk to someone. Cry in their arms. Say it all. Even counseling helps, it won't go to waste. But hey I'm not here to reiterate stuff that's been emphasized already. We know what's to be done so let's not relax and bank on the fact that we're always going to be told what to do. Suicide is heartbreaking. But what's even more heartbreaking is that it's a crime that's being committed not by by the victim. They are not to blame.

Society, you're guilty as charged.